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David Pasquino's avatar

Well said - tough to do …

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Brent Wiggins's avatar

Really good advice. I was wondering if you might have insight on dealing with a death of a spouse. It has been almost 3 years for me and there has been healing, but it is a slightly different scenario. Acceptance I believe is the biggest hurdle. I just feel like I am stuck in a waiting pattern and wondering how to move forward now without feeling guilty if that makes sense?

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Mthokozisi Mabhena's avatar

We are exactly the same. Went through a motherfucker of a heartbreak, and yes, you are absolutely right. Cold turkey is the only useful solution.

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Nicholas Ernst's avatar

This is really thoughtful and sound advice. Thanks for doing the hard work and sharing the fruits of that with us.

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Mary Ellen's avatar

Solid advice girl!

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